I think that the schools involved majorly stuffed up the delivery aspect of this news to the other pupils. i also think that the parents are a little mad for allowing their child to do this in such a public manner. im just wondering what other peoples reactions are to this.
Actually a therapist would recommend exactly that if there was a reasonable belief the kid would be able to successfully integrated into the same school under their new identity with a minimum of problems. Remember that most of the kids friends were in that school and most likely already knew about the situation, thus making it easier than starting at an entirely new school under a new identity.
When such a student does come to a school, to do as they did at this school is absurd. Having an assembly (and without notifying parents), then being told as they were in this manner … being told they should stick up if the girl is bullied … having her new name plastered above her coat peg … and THEN being told, “But treat her just like any other student!” How CAN they, when no one else has?
Yeah, that part they handled badly. There shouldn’t have been an assembly, and by having one the parents should have been notified in advance.
That being said, if they had handled the situation properly there would have been no parent notifications unless the kids asked questions anyway as the proper handling would have been to keep it as quiet as possible and to answer any questions that might by asked by the kids if/when they noticed something.
right so like the boy had feelings to be a girl? so he told i presume the teachers? they were like hmmm… okay lets talk to the parents and arrange it? so they did. he came to school as a girl, and no other parent was told about it?
I just think they are submiting their child to more needless negative attention this way. If when the child is old enough to make his/her own disicions they decide to go out dressed as their prefered gender then that is their choice. (In the uk the age of responsibility for your own actions is legislated at 16 with discresion on an individual basis to a minimum age of 12 [subject to intense scrutiny] people below that age are deemed to not understand/be able to fathom the consequences of your own actions) I just think that the parents arent considering that at 9 the child probably (and legally) doesnt understand the implications that such actions would have. If the child really seems sure that (s)he want to dress as the other gender then i really dont see the harm in it in controled circumstances (at home/family outings etc) but schools are inheritly unpredictable enviroments due to the pupil/teacher ratio being so low.
and i said a little mad not insane, a little mad is what you are when you make a desicion that goes as criticly wrong as this (in both cases the families are under police protection due to the way this was handled (in one case because the parents refused to allow the school to notify the other parents before hand))
(also i belive ive pointed out before the worlds a mad place and im looking for the way out of the asylum (just to say hi to the guards, i know which side of the door i belong on))
and im not judgeing people here, i have an opinion. People who dont know the differnce between the two should refrain from commenting.
The law for sex changes over here are that the process can only begin after puberty. However, there is a foreign precedent for delaying the onset of puberty and they want to try and go down that route in order that they can decide when they’re older without having developed decisively male features.
Your opinion has no basis when you have no clue what that family or that child was going through.
that is why i am not making a judgement just stateing my opinion.
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Making the statement “i think the parents are a little mad” fits more in the opinion definition then the judgement definition since i am not an expert in psycology and thus cannot create a considered decision.
and the reason im being fussy about this is that i hate being called judgemental, i have a policy of letting people live their lives whatever way they please aslong as it doesnt interfere with my life. However I do form opinions about what people do as Opinions help us all to govern our own lives.
This tabloid newspaper always makes everything thing sound trendsetting. then again that might just be my opinion!
You hit one of my reasons for thinking this decison odd, right on the head!
It seemed to me on reading this article, he has been going to school on a PINK scooter for awhile. so I would think his classmates were already aware of his desire.
After all he wasn’t forced to take a PINK scooter to school, he could have walked, nor was he forced to take a “Barbie” towel for swimming.
It is only in our fantasy stories are we Forced to wear a dress put our hair into pigtails (bunches). It sounds like whatever bullying has happened in the past hasn’t put him off. So I would think the situation has grown out of someone selling this story to the trash media.
I think he is rather brave to stand by his desire to be a girl, and to dress and behave accordingly.
I hope she has a happy life and the media and everyone else lets her get on with it.
And the rest of us get on with our fantasy.