Most of the catergories are clear - Member, Non-Member, Completed - but I could use some claritu on non-ABDL (And the implied ABDL categoru for all other stories). What makes a storu ABDL, besides the obvious? How does regression - mental or physical - fit in? Reincanatio with memory? Is there some clear defining principle?
Just use common sense and don’t fret about getting an edge case wrong. If it’s debatable which place the story belongs, at worst we’ll move it.
That said, all the things you mentioned probably put a story into the ABDL category.